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Date: Thu, 7 Feb 2002 13:56:14 EST
From: Cristy West
Subject: Re: Memorial service story request






In a message dated 2/7/02 2:29:17 PM, cwright@ROCKISLAND.COM writes:

<< Laura Simms did a workshop for 50 staff storytellers at the Staten
Island school district. I forgot the exact number, but a few hundred
children lost a parent in the WTC tragedy. It was early December, and
the coordinator told us that the island still had many funerals per day.

After introductions, Laura introduced the booklet she had produced
called "Stories to Nourish the Hearts of Our Children in a Time of
Crisis" (see http://www.laurasimms.com...or see the Healing stories
website for many of the stories.) She said, "You all know that stories
are not just entertainment. Each story contains a seed of a feeling,
and..." >>

Yes. And other stories in Laura's collection might do well.

As for what Gail said, "I'm intrigued by how we turn
to poetry sometimes instead of story. " -- poetry seems a more condensed,
succinct, precise use of language than story, appropriate for the compressed
emotions and complexities surrounding grief.

Here are two poems I have found that might be useful for you, Jena.

The first...

If you would indeed behold the spirit
of death, open your heart wide
unto the body of life.
For life and death are one, even as the
river and the sea are one.

--Kahlil Gibran (found in Life Prayers, ed. Roberts and Amidon)

And here's a poem I found last fall. It was used at a friend's memorial
service.
(copying this from an word processing doc. Hope it will transfer to e-mail
all right)


Epitaph

(anonymous)

When I die
Give what's left of me away
To children
And old men that wait to die.
Cry for your brother
Walking the street beside you.
And when you need me,
Put your arms
Around anyone
And give them
What you need to give me.

I want to leave you something,
Something better
Than words or sound.

Look for me
In the people I've known
Or loved,
And if you cannot give me away,
At least let me live in your eyes
And not on your mind.

You can love me most
By letting
Hands touch hands,
By letting bodies touch bodies,
And by letting go
Of children
That need to be free.

Love doesn't die,
People do.
So, when all that's left of me
Is love,
Give me away.

I'll see you at home
In the beyond.


Cristy West
Washington. DC