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Archive Number 54

Date: Tue, 17 Apr 2001 02:49:52 +0000
From: "Julie K."
Subject: Re: Working with folktales



Julie wrote:

Dear Tina & Other interested Wonderful Folks,

You may be aware of the reality that sometimes
"storytelling" can help people get to the their true
feelings, etc. Years ago, it may still exist today,
during the Staffing of patients in a short term, psych
hospital the doctors would ofter refer to what some
patients told them "as storytelling." Their idea was
that the patient was making it up, avoiding feelings.
Sometimes some of them probably where and some weren't.
And when they weren't--making it up-- they were probably
doing the best that they knew how to do, AT THE TIME, to
communitcate horrifying experiences of physcial, sexual
abuse or both.

For example, the more that physican and/or sexual abuse
came out of the closet....the more some therapist,
especially the women at first, began to hear patterns. As
they paid attention to them, they also began to see that
whether what they women told was true or not wasn't, AT
THAT TELLING, as important as the REALITY that the WOMAN
FINALLY TOLD IT.

Several years ago a group of women, psych-and-general
nursing, along with a few therapist and other interested
people opened a house called Cornelia Place. The house is
a safe haven for women to spend a few days, a few hours
or have their some of therapy sessions take happen at
Cornelia place. Whether it's a few hours, overnight or
several days---the purposes of the stay provide the woman
a safe place to process what she's revealed.

Instead of having to leave a Heavy Therapy Session and go
deal with her family, or the job, or "whatever," one of
the most important factors was The Woman was Heard."
She, her personhood, Soul, "whatever" were heard. No
aspect of her is criticized for what she revealed. Plus,
she remains in a safe place for her to "just be."

During the days when "holistic approaches and medicine"
were considered as "weird, strange, unstable, etc." I was
one part of a group of nurses, therapist, a psychatist
and pyschologist or 2-3; plus many other helping
profession people who met quarterly for several years.
The women who started Cornelia Place was a part of this
group and they educated us that whether the womans' (and
it would be the same for men)story was true or not, was
irrlevant at the time she told it.

It was important that she tell her stories of horror,
because in the process of telling and having them heard
she was in very early stages on the road to eventually
healing. As women have been able, SAFELY sort through
their horrendous experiences, with the help of their
therapist, Cornelia Place, many have gotten healthy and
others are following suit.

Not of them yet, but there are insurance companies,
medical assistance, etc. finally and slowly began to
recognize let this happen and out of a hospital setting
also saves money. If you want more information on this
contact either the Executive Director or Clinical
Director at Corneila Place, 2200 28th Ave. South,
Minneapolis, MN 55406 (612) 827-4774. They have a new
E.D. and I don't know her name. In a publication of the
2000 Minnesota Women's Press, Inc. the "blurb" submitted
by Conelia Place states: "Short-term residential and
outpatient services for women experiencing mental health
crisis due to abuse.

Finally, during the time that I worked that I planned and
carried out, in a small cafe located in the same
neighborhood of Corneila Place a Storytelling Fund Raiser
for the house. Since it's been a few years this tells me
it's probably time plan another. Every little bit counts.

Peace, Joy,
Julie (Jukey) Storyteller
> I agree with Christy West. I've used storytelling in therapeutic sessions,
> but don't confuse it with "therapy" / In fact, I've learned when people use
> 'storytelling' to avoid their feelings. It can be a way of patients'
> intellectualizing. I found it helpful to be the "storyteller" when coming
> into rehab hospitals, substance abuse centers. etc. Mainly I've trained
> such workers in the use of Storytelling. Tina Alston, Ph.D. Coordinator of
> Children's Services Pigeon Forge Public Library.
> web site:http://smokymtns.com/tina/tinahome.htm